It's all fun and games from both sides to be honest. Way too many options and the chase for something "better." I don't take them seriously anymore. I approached a guy at the mall to redeem myself from the embarrassment of a failed bumble date and it went really well! He was taken back but said that I should approach more often because you never know. I honestly don't care anymore about being rejected ever since Bumble Guy so I'll do the approaching again if I have to. Lol