I've always wondered about the concept of feeling that "spark." The spark can easily disappear after several years of marriage so why are we looking for it? Why can't we enjoy being around someone if we feel like they're a great catch and we truly enjoy their company? Some of the best relationships start out as friends in the beginning so Why do we have to miss out on possibly the best opportunity to look for "the spark?" That spark we're looking for could be hidden in that person and saved for the right time.