Truly inspiring. I am also a basement dweller at the moment. I can relate.
A lot of my friends took the life path with marriage and kids early on. I knew I wanted more than that. I knew I wasn't ready and wouldn't be at my best if I had followed that path. I wouldn't be happy.
Although it does get to me sometimes, I try to remember my plan and every day is another day closer to where I want to be. Again, very inspiring and I enjoyed reading every word from your experience, James!